Be very careful about taking serious the kind of people that are looking for love.  They don’t see you, they are only interested in the feeling of love their ego gets from your attention.  As soon as they feel you are not constantly massaging their egos, these damaged people will look for another servant.  People that are not looking for love but are loving will have the ability to love with out demanding a reciprocation.  These people are the gems of life it is YOU they love, not the sensation.  Commanding love is far more honourable than demanding it and they deserve to be honoured, which is the highest response to love.